December 24, 2011

A Christmas Eve Devotion

We are so glad to be HOME for Christmas! This is our first Christmas as just the four of us!  Of course invitations were offered, but it just worked best for us to travel for pre-Christmas celebrations and for us to be at our own house for the days surrounding Christmas.

One reason we won't feel too lonely is our amazing church family.  We have already enjoyed many traditions that our church has during the Advent season, but one that so many look forward to is our Christmas Eve service.  There is something special about worshiping the newborn King among the friends that you worship with every Sunday, your real family in Christ.  The true highlight of the service is when our pastor reads the Christmas story from Luke to the children, while holding the youngest baby from our congregation!  All throughout my pregnancy there was a conversation about whether or not LB would be able to be the baby.  Once my induction was scheduled for the 19th, we were hoping we would be able to take our sweet 5 day old baby....and we did!

 
 And we are looking forward to taking both boys to this year's service to see LB's buddy Jack as the "Christmas baby!" (Well, we are a little nervous entertaining the boys for an hour in church may be a disaster...but we'll see how it goes!)


Another tradition that is so special is a book of Advent devotions that various members of our church write.  Last year I was honored and a little scared to be asked to write on of the devotions, but decided it was a good challenge for me to take on.  I was asked to write again this year (so I guess last year's wasn't too horrible!)  I wanted to share it with y'all!  


I want to wish you a most wonderful Christmas with those you love!


An Advent devotion from Luke 1:67-80- Christmas Eve 2011


During the Advent season last year we were actively waiting for the birth of our second son, Cole. Those last few weeks of pregnancy often seem to drag on, but the excitement of the season and celebrating the birth of Christ did make it seem to go by a little faster.  Unlike the examples of extreme patience and faithfulness demonstrated by Abraham and Sarah, Elkanah and Hannah and Elizabeth and Zachariah, we have been blessed with our children without much waiting.


Imagine how long Elizabeth’s pregnancy must have seemed to Zachariah--knowing the plans that God had for his son, as told to him by the angel of the Lord, and not being able to speak!  If we knew the specific and amazing plans that God had for our own children we would probably be shouting it from the rooftops!  After John’s birth Zachariah is filled with the Holy Spirit and he is finally able to recite his song of praise to God.


Zachariah praises God for keeping His promises.  How excited the new father must have been to have the son he had prayed for and knowing that his cousin would soon give birth to the even longer awaited Messiah! When it feels like we have been waiting forever for something to happen, maybe even past the point of it seeming feasible, remember that God keeps his promises.


Also remember that God is working in the “in between” times, using us in ways we do not understand. We are given each new day so that we can serve Him and our experiences prepare us for things that we do not even realize we are waiting for.  Life has its mountains and valleys, but it is during the times of calm that are often the most important.  These are the times that we should nurture our relationship and dependence on Jesus and his teachings.  We can then recognize that no matter what we face, when we trust our lives to God the outcome will always be the same--through His mercy we will be forgiven and saved from our sins.


Just as John prepared many for Jesus’ teachings, we too are called “77 to give knowledge of salvation to his people by the forgiveness of their sins. 78 By the tender mercy of our God, the dawn from on high will break upon us, 79 to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace.”




December 20, 2011

When it becomes apparent that I'm not as tech savvy as I think

I have been enjoying the many Christmas card posts floating around the blog world...even a few I have been lucky enough to get in the mail!

Of course I was excited to show off my own little cuties on this year's card to y'all.   Since it did take two attempts on Thanksgiving to get these images (while I jumped around like an idiot singing songs and throwing a pillow over my head.)

I sat down to grab the card and then I hit a wall!  I ordered from Snapfish and I have no idea how to capture the lovely high-quality image from their site.

So you are getting a grainy scan and then poorly picniked card. Fail.





December 19, 2011

Happy First Birthday, Little Bear, and remembering his birth!

My sweet boy is ONE today!  I can't believe it!  He was a difficult baby for the first 5 months or so...but now he is sooooo easy!  He loves his brother so much and is such an observer.  I love that he is smaller and less advanced physically than Big Bear was, so he still seems like a baby to me!

 Always so serious!

Since I wasn't blogging when I had him I thought I would share his birth story with y'all.  I know all you mommy-types can't get enough of the birth stories.

As with most things in my life, I like controlled situations and to have things done my way.  When it comes to childbirth two things are paramount for me- 1. It's scheduled. and 2. There must be drugs. 
Woah. And pretty a hospital gown for this go-round

With BB I had a lovely scheduled induction on his exact due date.  It was perfect.  Less than 11 hours of labor with an epidural after 6 and I didn't feel a thing after that.

When we found out Little Bear's due date, December 26th, I was less than pleased. I know that sounds horrible, but it's the truth.  I wanted to KNOW that I would be in my house, with my babies (+ other family) on Christmas Eve.  I could not stand the possibility of being in the hospital on Christmas nor did I want LB to have a birthday right in the middle of the holidays.  

Early on I reminded my doctors, two fantastic women, of what a wonderful induction I had with BB and that I definitely wanted to go that route again.  Of course it was, "we'll see" for a good while, but at my 38 week appointment I went in with a mission...to schedule my induction!
Easier said than done as there were few slots left as lots of other mommas were scheduling theirs too!  We got our spot and checked in at 7pm on December 18th.  They were busy and things didn't get rolling until 11pm!  I actually ended up getting my epidural before starting Pitocin because the anesthesiologist was on the hall (Mr. Banker may have actually ordered it for me...)

By 11am I hadn't really progressed much (5-6), which had me a little freaked out.  My doctor broke my water, Mr. Banker headed out to grab some lunch and then I called the photographer to tell her it was still going to be a while.  Yes, I had a photographer for my birth...I already shared my thoughts on hiring photographers.  The photographer provided the services pro bono as she was trying to start her portfolio for births.  And after you've done it once and only have blurry pictures to show for it, you really don't care who is in the room if you can get some awesome pics, as you will see.

Well, about 20 minutes after she broke my water I was starting to feel pressure.  Serious pressure.  This was all so odd to me because I didn't feel a thing with BB.  I called Mr. B to see if he was on his way back and thankfully he was in the elevator.  He quickly got a nurse to check me and I was complete...from 5 to 10 cm in 30 minutes! Crazy!


The next hour was LONG...I was waiting for the doctor to get back and hitting my epidural top off button at every opportunity.  A little over of 30 minutes of pushing and our sweet boy was born at 1:05!




Today we'll be celebrating with his Nana (they share a birthday!) and Papa among more Christmas celebrations!  I have a few sweet newborn pictures to share later in the week...Christmas + my baby's first birthday are making me so sentimental!


December 14, 2011

Salt Dough Ornaments

I'm linking up today with Meredith today for another day of Oh What Fun It Is....


When I was planning for Little Bear's birthday party, I knew I wanted to find a polar bear ornament to include in the goodie bags.  I was secretly hoping to find the cutest polar bear ornament, well 10 of them, preferably at Hobby Lobby where I could grab them for 50% off.  No such luck. 

But I couldn't abandon my polar bear ornament idea, so that meant I had to get crafty!

I told Mr. Banker I planned on making Salt Dough Ornaments, to which he replied "that's something my mom would do."  Note to husbands: This is usually not something your wife wants to hear.  Anyway, I knew they would be adorable; "compliments" aside I got to work.

Salt Dough Ornaments:

1/2 cup table salt
1/2 cup water
1 cup all-purpose flour

Put all ingredients into a mixer, and blend together until a sticky dough forms, making sure all of the flour is incorporated.

Take the dough out, and knead for 7 to 10 minutes on a well-floured surface.
*This was the hardest part as I was sure I wasn't kneading right, which resulted in watching a few youtube videos.  Obviously I'm not making fresh bread every week if I have to watch a video to learn how to knead.  And it took me closer to 15 minutes to get the dough smooth enough to roll out.

Then you are ready to roll out your dough and use cookie cutters to cut out your shapes!
 

Once cut out poke a hole with a skewer and place on a parchment lined cookie sheet. Bake at 200 degrees for 4 to 6 hours.  You are just trying to dry all of the water out, so you can judge by how "dry" they look.  Allow to dry overnight.


Then you are ready to paint!  For the gifts I chose to just paint the bears with white acrylic and then put the year on the back.  I let BB paint his own ornament and he was so excited!  Definitely something I will do with him next year....these make great grandparent gifts!  I'm sure you could make some really fabulous ornaments with glitter and other adornments.

I hope you will check out the other creative posts linked up with Meredith today!

December 13, 2011

Yes or No?

I consider myself a "yes" person.  Mostly because I hate disappointing anyone.  And when I do say no, I tend to feel all kinds of guilt.  I'm really trying to work on this and do what is right for me & my family.

While this time of year is jam packed with fun events and activities that I'd love to say yes to, I've had to listen to my gut and not overload my schedule.  I was planning to go to our Women's Ministry's annual cookie swap last night, but I just had to skip it.  I'm so sleep deprived that Mr. and I have been snippy at each other.  I have eaten so much junk food that I'm rundown.  I just had a gut feeling that I didn't need to spend several hours yesterday baking cookies and then staying out late.  And frankly, I'm kind of over socializing.  How awful is that...and soooo unlike me?

I was really thankful that I went to bed early when I heard BB screaming at 3am.  He had *TMI* made a nasty diaper deposit.  Fun times.  So we chilled on the couch for an hour and then happily went back to bed- halleluiah!  

I was glad I listened to my gut.

It seems like I've been saying no more than ever lately.  Not accepting a leadership position in Junior League.  Not signing up for any more swaps that I know I don't have time for.  Not feeling bad when I hit "mark all as read" in my Google Reader.

This leads me to a question for y'all...because I'm curious and sometimes just plain nosy.  How many blogs do you regularly read?  I checked and I have 167 blogs in my reader.  I think that's a lot and obviously too many to keep up with.  I tend to just hit subscribe when I see a new blog with a post that I think speaks to me, but many times after a few weeks I realize that we don't really connect.

So I'm going to work on saying no a little bit more often and with a little bit less guilt.

For any of you on the opposite side of the spectrum who have trouble saying yes, check out Imani's post.  I heard this on our local radio show...she is challenging herself to 30 days of yes.

Let me know if you are a Yes or No person!  Maybe we can learn from each other!


December 12, 2011

My Entertaining Tips & A Polar Bear First Birthday Party!

Hi friends! Remember me...the crazy party planning momma?  The one who took a whole week off of blogging to cook and craft and stay up until 1am for a few too many nights?  I'm so glad to be back!

We had a wonderful 1st birthday party for Little Bear this past weekend and with the events fresh in my mind I am so excited to link up with some of my favorite bloggers for their "Oh What Fun it is to..." series this week!  Today Nina is hosting about all things entertaining!

I LOVE to entertain...but with two little ones I don't get to host parties nearly as often as I would like.  Which in turn, I believe, makes me go a little overboard.  I put together a list of some tips that I find helpful when I'm planning a party...and I'll mix in some pictures from LB's party!

1. Find your inspiration, and find it early!

I decided very early that I wanted Little Bear's first birthday to have a polar bear theme (he may or may not have still been in the womb.)  I was on the lookout for a smocked polar bear outfit
I found this cuteness way back in February!

You can find inspiration anywhere...a color scheme, invitation, tradition, anything!  I know how to take a theme and run with it...as you will see!

Once you have the inspiration for your party you can keep your eye out for details to pick up ahead of time.  I bought blue and green platters in the front dollar section at Target months ago and found a polar bear jack in the box on Zulily.  The longer the have the more potential to find cute items!

2. Don't be afraid to try something new! 

For this party I really wanted to try making frosted sugar cookies.
not perfect, but completely delicious!

As with anything new it's a good idea to do a trial run first.  I tried one cookie recipe that didn't work and settled on the second...along with the icing instructions from Bake at 350.  By the end I actually had a lot of fun making the cookies and look forward to making more iced cookies in the future!

So try a new dish or craft, serve the meal in a different room (a friend did this recently and said her guests were all confused because the food wasn't in the "usual" spot!) or change up your normal New Year's Eve party for a New Year's Day breakfast!

3. But don't be afraid to recycle either!

When I found the polar bear longall I was beyond excited that the bears were wearing the most adorable blue and green scarves...because for Big Bear's first birthday EVERYTHING was blue and green!  So I reused a ton of elements (and no one noticed!)

You can recycle menus and serve the same meal every year or always host a tacky sweater party...people will begin to look forward to your annual party!


4. When kids are involved- plan an activity!

Obviously this was a kids' party, but even at parties that are more for the adults make sure that the littles have something to keep them busy!

It doesn't have to be complicated at all...I picked up some foam polar bears and other Artic shapes that the "older" kids glued down on construction paper.  Simple, right?  I was astounded when kept them occupied for most of the party!  Well that and cupcakes.


Or....maybe you hire a babysitter to entertain all of the kids at your house.  I know your friends would love that!

5. Enlist help, and lots of it!

Just because you're hosting a party, that doesn't mean you have to do all of the work!  For me that meant a few things...having my sister-in-law make the smash cake

adorable topper from Sugar Dough Designs

putting Bestie to work the minute she came in the door- she's an awesome cupcake decorator!



asking a friend to be in charge of taking all of the pictures--this is priceless, because if it were up for me & Mr. Banker to take pictures we would have no food (Mr. is usually in charge of that!) and no sweet pictures like this (+ ~300 more!)

I'm sure your friends are always willing to help with party details!  For you it may mean that everyone brings a dish or someone helps you design the invitation. 

6. Don't overstress and have fun!

So what if you don't have time to make that cute door hanger or whitty, theme appropriate labels for the food?  Don't worry if the meal isn't served on time or if someone cries during the prayer.  And most of all don't freak out if your 2 year old throws up at the end of the party (not that I know anything about that.  Ahem.)  Your guests will feed off of your energy and if you seem uncomfortable they are going to feel uncomfortable!  You should enjoy being surrounded by people you care about and enjoy celebrating whatever the occasion!

Super cute polar bear shirt by Lulu McGee!

I hope you enjoyed by wannabe-entertaining guru tips and will hop over to Nina's blog to get some great advice from some other bloggers!

December 6, 2011

This week is brought to you by:

Sugar Free Red Bull...which I don't even like, so you know this is serious!

Bears

Polar Bears to be exact...


and crazy, type A mommas 

Who, me?

That's an awesome polo shirt...you would have made that face too.

Little Bear's polar bear themed first birthday party is this coming Saturday, so I am in full on execution mode of all the plans I've been hoarding for months. I get a little obsessive over parties and I love to get extra stressed over all of the details...that's why we've decided on the every-other-year approach to parties.  And I always come up with some crazy last minute project that I won't be happy until it's done.  We'll see what that ends up being this time around.  Thankfully we are reusing many details from BB's first party.

Add to the stress that it's my precious baby boy's first birthday and I'm all kinds of emotional.  I may have almost started crying in the card aisle at Target last night buying him a card.  This age makes me antsy for another baby, but we are stopping at two.  So this is uncharted territory for me as well...a month after BB's first birthday we found out I was pregnant.  Add to that lots of fun twitter/blogger baby announcements and it's hard to fight off the baby fever.  I guess I need to go re-read last week's post everyday!

I have no idea how much I will be around this week.  I will likely spend most of it covered in flour, sugar and acrylic paint.


December 2, 2011

And here we go again

Do not view this as a complaining post...rather it's a confession that after 2.5+ years at this mom thing, on most days I still feel like I have no clue what I'm doing or like there is any sense of routine/order.  I love my job, but in my mind it is the hardest job ever.  And it feels so difficult to try to make improvements.


I will do a proper "day in the life" post (which is on my Before 30 list) with pictures of my adorable bosses sometime soon....on that magic day when I do feel like I have it together!

Yesterday started like most days.  At 6am my alarm goes off.  I really don't want to get up...I love some sleep.  But then I remember that this is one of the precious times in the day where the house is quiet and I can have some alone time.  So after one snooze I'm up and by 6:20 I'm settled on the couch.  Coffee in hand I'm ready to catch up on current events (Facebook, Twitter) and important shows on my DVR (Real Housewives, Glee).  Without fail (for the past 2 weeks) the millisecond I hit the power button for the television I hear the sound of Big Bear's feet hitting the floor above my head.  Yes, his bedroom is directly above our living room.  I really didn't think that decision out too well, but it is what it is. 

I down my coffee and watch my show, all with the background soundtrack of animal sounds and recitations of the ABC's.  I often think "today's the day I'll get it together!  I'll actually put away that load of laundry that I've been moving from the basket to the bed to be put away for the past 4 days.  I'll remember to call and schedule that appointment.  I'll return that email.  Oh, and I'll eat well too! Yes, protein and water!  I'll drink lots of water today.  We're just staying home, so it won't matter if I have to go to the bathroom 20 times!"

At 7:00 I head upstairs. Every morning I am greeted with something like this "Hi Mommy! Milk, strawberry bar, Calliou please?"  or this morning "Hi Mommy! Trick or Treat at church?"  In other words, my boy wakes up on a mission.  EVERYDAY. 

I hear this is payback from my own childhood.  Always wanting to be on the go.  I guess that's not too much unlike myself now...

So we head downstairs for food and a little bit of television to start the day (No judgies here please...my child does watch tv and I'm pretty sure because of it he knows all of his letters, colors and shapes. Better than most kindergarteners even, as I'm told by his Sunday School teacher who is a former teacher.  That's my story and I'm sticking to it!)

Little Bear is up shortly after that and the morning is a blur.  I do know that by 9am BB has had 2 time outs and I'm secretly eating pop tarts in the pantry. 

The next half hour goes something like this-

9:30- BB sits to play with stickers
9:32- Dog needs to be walked
9:33- LB needs diaper change
9:35- help BB make card for friend at church who was sick
9:37- tantrum because mommy drew a girl with a dress on and BB thought I drew her without legs.  Apparently this is unacceptable.
9:38- LB needs another diaper change
9:40- post timeout change of scenery to basement playroom
9:45- timeout for stealing toys from LB
10- LB down for nap and another change of scenery back upstairs
....    

the next thing I know I have managed to get both boys down for afternoon naps. Hurray!

But it's 2:15 and I realize that besides the secret pop tarts the only thing I've eaten all day is two spoonfuls of the boys' mac and cheese and probably 2 coke zeros. 

I crash again on the couch with a coke zero and a "snack" to hold me over until dinner.  Today it's nutella and ritz crackers.

Then rather than being productive I sit and surf on the internet, watch my beloved Anderson or just find general ways to mis-manage my time.  Why? Because I'm tired. Yes, I realize part of this is because I'm constantly crashing my blood sugar (typing as I eat another nutella topped cracker.)  But another part is simply that we do need more structure and a change of scenery.   

On the days when BB doesn't have school (and even the ones when he does) I need to get out of the house.  I want to find things that the boys and I can do together...which for an infant and a toddler is a tough order.  But I think I may have found a small solution to get us moving in the right direction--

I'm joining a gym!

Wow, exciting right?  I haven't had a gym membership for 4 years.  I got a treadmill two years ago when I realized that the remaining baby weight from BB wasn't going to just fall off.  I was able to lose the rest of the weight just in time to find out I was pregnant again.  I hit the treadmill a lot earlier after LB and was able to get the weight off and then actually do the Insanity workouts.  But I can't really do either of those things when I'm "at work" with the boys.

My friend Autumn has been raving about the classes she has been taking at her gym.  The boys are old enough now that I don't mind leaving them with the childcare there.  If I know my BB like I think I do, I'm sure requests to go to the gym will be mixed in with his asking to go to school or church.  Anything to get out of the house!  It will be good for me to use the time to better myself too.

I know the boys will *hopefully* be easier to get out with in time.  I'm actually already looking forward to BB turning 3, at which point he can do "drop off" soccer classes!  And as always I am open to hearing any suggestions you may have!  Just don't tell me to lay off the Coke Zero!
 

Boys monogramed items for sale! N, NJP & C

Kelly is hosting a monogram swap/link up today.  I have a few things that I've been wanting to sell, but definitely didn't have enough traffic on my own to do a post..so hopefully with the link up some of these pieces will find homes!

Prices will include shipping! Email me at Forever29blog@gmail.com if you are interested!

1. Chez Ami Reverible Longall Size 2- Light Blue Check with nPj monogram in brown/Royal Blue check
    $18



2. Chez Ami Blue size 2 stripe john john with nPj monogram in re--$12



3. SOLD Chez Ami size 2 Brown check longall with N monogram & pumpkin--$15


 3. SOLD Chez Ami Size 18 months turquoise check john john with N monogram--$12


4. Patsy Aiken size XS (2) Red sweater with white N monogram- $12

5. Chez Ami Size 2 Orange check john john monogram NJP in white- $12





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